Will's Story

My name is Will. I am 16 years old and I have a cleft lip and palate. There are many positive and negative consequences to having a cleft. However, in today’s society, it is a constant struggle to fit in. When I walk into a mall people might look at me once then turn away, but there are some who persist and follow me around without realizing how much it hurts me. When people follow me or stare I try to ignore them.  It’s the best thing you can do.

Recently, I had the opportunity to attend Trailblazers, a retreat for teens with facial differences, sponsored by AboutFace. I have never been happier to be me! I was reluctant to go at first, but with the encouragement of my dentist and family, I decided to give it a try. I was nervous because I didn’t know anyone and I didn’t know what to expect. I have learned to embrace my cleft, and want very much to use my knowledge and experience to help others overcome their fears and worries; the camp gave me this opportunity.

At Trailblazers, I met some wonderful people. I allowed my true self to shine. I love drama and theatrics and I love to make others laugh. We had so much fun talking and sharing our experiences. We played trust games and team building exercises. We performed some amazing tasks like high ropes, rock climbing, kayaking. I am not an athletic person, but with the support and encouragement of my new friends, I was able to push myself to achieve some incredible triumphs! You never know what you can do until you try! I did cross the high ropes! I did reach the top of the rock wall! I did meet great people.

At night, when we were all together around the camp fire, we shared some laughs, some tears, and many wonderful stories. Today, my camp friends and I talk via email and through AboutFace we plan other activities we can do together. I am looking forward to going back to camp next year. There will be no hesitation!